So what does it feel just like become groomed?
Grooming can feel exhilarating – at very first. The predator employs attentiveness, sensitiveness, (false) plenty and empathy of good reinforcement to seduce their target. Because of their component, victims may be therefore enthralled with, or overrun by the eye they’re receiving; they will often disregard or ignore warning flag that might alert them that the one who is showering these with that attention is somehow “off”. Over time, the abuser breaks via a victim’s defenses that are natural gains trust, and manipulates or coerces the target into doing his/her bidding.
The target discovers by by themselves willingly handing over money or assets, participating in improper, illegal or morally ambiguous actives ( as an example sharing nude pictures or videos of on their own), or acting being a proxy for the abuser, fighting the abuser’s battles, and performing their might. (more…)